How Do You Do That??? Part 2

In my attempt to continue answering this question, I share with you my next response. This is the response that I believe gives me the most validity.

I am trained. 

I am a board-certified music therapist and am trained in the field of music therapy. “Music Therapy is the clinical and evidence-based use of music interventions to accomplish individualized goals within a therapeutic relationship by a credentialed professional who has completed an approved music therapy program” (American Music Therapy Association, 2005). Beyond a bachelor’s degree in music therapy, 1200 hours of supervised clinical training, and a certification exam, music therapists adhere to specific guidelines within our work. These such things are outlined in the Scope of Music Therapy Practice, Standards of Clinical Practice, Code of Ethics, and Professional Competencies (all found on musictherapy.org if you’re curious). In addition, I am required to continue learning and receive continuing music therapy education credits to maintain and retain my certification.

To take a closer look, I have studied within the disciplines of music, medicine, and psychology. I have taken classes on counseling skills and creating a therapeutic relationship. I have studied techniques and methods of using music to promote wellness. I have researched the responses of the brain and body to music, and I have created interventions to work on objectives that help reach a goal. I have gained knowledge in playing various musical styles and instruments. I have studied medical jargon and learned about end of life diagnoses. I have intellectually prepared for what to expect with an individual who is dying and have experientially gone through the process of being with someone at the end of life. 

Along with all of this, I have practiced self-care. My education and supervision have guided me in greater self-awareness. Self-care is my friend and kin, often ignored but most needed. I am vigilantly aware of how my mind, body, and emotions are responding within the given environment, and I have the know-how to leave a situation that is too emotionally taxing. As a music therapist, I give myself time and space. I take a generous inhale and relaxing exhale before I enter a room with a patient who is dying. I let myself feel, but reserve the “ugly cry” for the safety of my own bedroom. I try to leave my own feelings at the door and with each step inside, I become the family and patient’s solid rock. They need something stable when their life is failing and supportive when their world is falling apart. As a board-certified music therapist, I am trained and am continually learning.